The Child We See™

What is The Child We See™

A programme that goes at their pace.

The Child We See™ is a structured, therapeutic online programme for children and young people who need more than a conversation — they need a safe, consistent space to understand themselves, process what they feel and move forward.

It runs through a private portal, personalised to your child's age. Progress happens stage by stage — and nothing moves forward until Nicole marks each stage complete, so the pace is always right for your child.

The programme runs in small cohorts, with a limited number of families each time — so every child is genuinely seen.

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Ages 7–12

The Cog Machine

Every cog your child turns makes their machine stronger and their sky a little brighter. When all eight turn — the ball drops.

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Ages 13–18

The Constellation

Each stage lights up a new star. As the constellation takes shape, so does your young person's understanding of themselves.

"The sky starts dark tonight. Every cog you turn brings in a little more light."

The 8-Stage Journey

Progress that happens stage by stage.

Each stage has its own session, activities and daily check-in. Nicole marks each stage complete — so the programme moves at your child's pace, not a fixed schedule.

Stage 1

Who I Am

Starting the journey — getting to know yourself and what makes you, you.

Stage 2

Feelings Live Here

Where do feelings show up in your body? The body map helps your child find the words.

Stage 3

Naming It

Feelings are easier to handle once you can name them. There's no right answer here.

Stage 4

Understand

Why do I feel this way? Connecting emotions to experiences, without judgement.

Stage 5

Starting to Learn

Building tools — small, practical ways to manage big feelings day to day.

Stage 6

Out in the World

Taking what's been learned and practising it — in school, at home, with friends.

Stage 7

Coming Out the Other Side

Recognising how far they've come. The sky is brighter — and they helped make it that way.

Stage 8

Breakthrough ✦

All eight stages complete. A certificate in their name, with Nicole's signature. The ball drops.

The sky changes as your child progresses

The portal home screen shifts from midnight → sunrise → full daylight across the 8 stages.

🌑 Midnight — Stage 1 → 🌅 Sunrise — Stage 7 → ☀️ Daylight — Complete

Inside the Portal

What your child gets access to.

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Stage Sessions

Eight stage-specific sessions — each with Nicole's guidance, questions and activities tailored to your child's age.

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Daily Check-Ins

A quick mood check-in every day. Children can write, draw or — for teens — leave a voice note. Visible to Nicole only.

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The Body Map

An interactive body map — tap where feelings show up. A gentle, visual way in for children who don't have the words yet.

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Journal & Drawing

Children can write or draw in their journal. Teens also have voice notes. Everything is private to them and Nicole.

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Breakthrough Certificate

When all 8 stages are complete, a personalised certificate is generated — with the child's name, the date and Nicole's signature.

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Nicole Checks In

Nicole monitors each child's check-ins and is alerted if anything needs attention. You'll never feel like your child is in this alone.

Choose Your Programme

Two ways to join the programme.

Both programmes give your child full access to the 8-stage portal. The Family Programme adds a structured parent track and live group sessions.

Child Programme

Child Programme.

Your child works through their 8-stage journey with Nicole monitoring their check-ins and progress. Parents can see stage progress but not session content or check-ins.

✓Full 8-stage child or teen portal
✓Daily check-in with journal and drawing
✓Interactive body map
✓Nicole monitoring and alerts
✓Parent progress view
✓Breakthrough certificate

Family Programme.

Everything in the Child Programme, plus a structured 6-week parent track and live Parent Circle sessions with Nicole — so you know how to support what's happening in the portal at home.

✓Everything in the Child Programme
✓6-week parent learning programme
✓Weekly home practice activities
✓Parent Circle — live group sessions with Nicole
✓Cohort community with other parents
✓Flexible session times to suit your time zone

Fees are confirmed on application. Payment by card, with instalment options available. Open to families worldwide.

For Family Programme Parents

The Parent Circle — your space too.

The Parent Circle is a small, closed group of parents and carers going through the programme at the same time. You meet with Nicole live, online — once a week for six weeks — to process the programme, ask questions and support each other.

Between sessions, your parent portal releases weekly videos from Nicole, with home practice activities that connect what your child is doing in the portal with what's happening at home.

Six live sessions with Nicole

Scheduled to suit your time zone

Six weeks of home practice

Weekly activities you do together as a family

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Maximum 6 families per cohort

A small, safe group — not a webinar

January 2027 Cohort

Places are limited. Families are invited only.

Each cohort starts with a short application so Nicole can make sure the programme is the right fit. Places are offered after a brief call — then a payment link is sent to confirm your spot.

1.Join the waitlist below
2.Receive the application link
3.A short call with Nicole
4.Invite and payment to confirm your place
5.Your child's portal opens — and the journey begins

Is This Right for Us?

Who The Child We See™ is designed for.

This programme may be right if your child…

✓Struggles to name or manage their emotions
✓Has been through something difficult and needs space to process it
✓Is anxious, withdrawn or finding school, friendships or family hard
✓Would benefit from a structured, therapeutic space outside of weekly sessions
✓Is aged 7–18

And as a parent, you…

✓Can see something is wrong but don't always know how to help
✓Want more than a waiting list and a 50-minute slot once a fortnight
✓Want to understand what your child is going through — not just be kept out of it
✓Are committed to showing up for the process alongside your child

Created by Nicole Henry

Nicole is a Mental Health Specialist in Education with more than 13 years of experience working with children and young people across the UK and UAE. She is an integrative therapist and registered member of BACP. The Child We See™ brings together her therapeutic training, education expertise and her belief that every child deserves to be seen — not just managed.

Common Questions

A few things families often ask.

How is this different from private therapy?

The Child We See™ is a structured programme, not open-ended therapy. It runs for a defined set of stages, with a clear journey and a certificate at the end. Nicole monitors your child's check-ins and progress throughout — but the programme also works between sessions, so your child is supported day-to-day rather than just for 50 minutes a week.

What age is the programme for?

Ages 7–18. Children aged 7–12 access the Cog Machine portal; young people aged 13–18 access the Constellation portal. Nicole can set the portal based on your child's needs rather than strictly by age.

What does "invite-only" mean?

Registration for the programme is by invitation only — you can't simply sign up. Joining the waitlist means you'll receive the application. After a short call with Nicole, places are offered and a payment link is sent to confirm. This keeps cohorts small and ensures the programme is right for every child who joins.

Can my child see their check-ins? Can I?

Check-ins, journals, drawings and voice notes are visible to Nicole only — not to parents, other families or siblings. Parents in the Family Programme can see the child's stage progress but not what they write or draw. This is designed so children feel genuinely safe in the portal.

What if something serious comes up in a check-in?

Nicole monitors all check-ins and is alerted immediately if anything needs attention. Children will always be shown a "who sees this?" message and local emergency/helpline details on their check-in page. The portal also carries a clear notice that it is not an emergency or crisis service.

We're not based in the UK — can we still join?

Yes — the programme is fully online and open to families anywhere in the world. The only thing to consider is time zone: Parent Circle sessions are scheduled with Nicole and the group, so you'll want to make sure the session times work for where you are. When you apply, Nicole will confirm the available times so you can check before committing.